Talking about their ex:
Not shutting up about past relationships
Indecisiveness:
im not your decider, make a choice. and don’t just arbitrarily make a decision because that’s what i want, that’s only going to make me hate you more. i don’t know what you want to eat, i don’t know what you want to wear, i don’t know the exact path your life should take or even day-to-day minutia. know yourself, what you like, what you don’t like, what you want, what you don’t want. stand behind your decisions. if you are someone who always has to ask someones else’s opinion before you can have one of your own than i can’t trust your judgment and im going to question if you really want to be with me or you just couldn’t decide and went along anyway. buh-bye.
Arrogance.
I once dated someone who, by most accounts, should have pursued a modeling career. We had some great times but the one trait that kept rearing its ugly head was arrogance. Apologies were never in her vocabulary and she had a relentless passion to find fault in everyone but herself.
I went along with it for a bit but one day it became a crescendo of repeated unfounded accusations for something that never truly deserved any merit and though it killed me to do it, I grabbed my belongings, threw them into my car and left her apartment.
Dating a person with above-average looks is nice but I learned the hard way that looks aren’t everything and it also caused me to revisit my shortlist of requirements in a woman.
Being cold, in any and/or all ways:
In popular, nonmedical usage the word has been used traditionally to describe a variety of behaviours, ranging from general coldness of manner or lack of interest in physical affection to aversion to the act of sexual intercourse.
Ah, my hero:
Biggest turn-off in a girl? Some other man.