4. He never opens up about his personal life to you.
Look at it this way; would you tell someone you really weren’t into about your childhood and struggles growing up? Probably not. Would you introduce them to your friends and family? Definitely not. If someone isn’t into you, they don’t bring you to their friends, family, or anyone for that matter. They also keep everything very superficial – boring “how was your day” sh*t. Unless the convos start getting deeper, it’s nothing serious.
5. Your girlfriends do not approve of him.
I highly recommend asking your friends who are in relationships only what their opinion of him is, as they will have a good baseline for his assessment. If your girlfriends do not approve of him, he is probably doing something to turn them off – which, should be a major sign for you. Your friends know you better than anyone else, and, if they are in a relationship it means they know a thing or two about guys and showing affection.
6. He hasn’t taken you on a real date.
By real date, I mean out to dinner or a movie; not a movie on his couch, not a date in his room. I mean a real date night out. If he hasn’t asked you out on a real date yet, he is definitely not into you. And just because he invited you to a date of Netflix and Chill at his apartment does not mean he is into you – it means he’s bored and didn’t want to spend the night alone.
7. You are confused by him more often than not.
If you are confused about his motives, or if he likes you at all – it’s a sign he’s on the fence. Who wants to be with someone who isn’t sure about them? At the end of the day, we all just want to be loved by someone who truly cares, not by someone who kind of cares when they feel like it but isn’t entirely sure. We’re adults, we have no time for the middle school bullsh*t.