11. He breaks plans with you at the last minute with no remorse.
Like I’ve said before, time is valuable, especially when we all have busy schedules. If a guy is constantly making excuses as to why he can’t see you and breaks plans – without feeling bad – stop making plans with him altogether.
12. He’s incredibly selfish in the bedroom.
Any guy who is more concerned about himself than you in the bedroom – that’s a big red flag. Sex is supposed to be enjoyable for all. If he’s not trying to make you orgasm – or, doesn’t return the favor for oral, why are you sleeping with him? You can burn calories at the gym – save yourself, sis.
13. He never, ever admits when he’s wrong.
If a guy can’t admit when they’re wrong or apologize, his ego is way too big for his own good. No one is right all of the time and people make mistakes, it takes a real man and an adult to own up to them.
14. He judges you for your past.
Everyone has a past – I’m sure you two aren’t the first people you’ve ever dated or slept with (if you are, kudos to you). If a guy is judging you for who you have dated in the past or what has happened to you, that’s wrong. You can’t control what happened before you met and there’s absolutely no reason he should hold it against you.
15. He makes fun of your goals or aspirations.
No one is interested in the same things in life, it’s just a fact. You probably will end up dating someone in a completely different field career-wise. But, if someone is insulting your goals and aspirations in life – belittling you and telling you it’s “stupid” or “dumb,” they should not be in your life. Vibes are contagious, surround yourself with people who lift you up.