In any romantic relationship, people are always trying to “spice things up” in the bedroom from time to time.
There’s nothing that makes things super hot and heavy than a little “tease.” And, what better way to make your partner want it even more than by giving them a striptease? While it sounds ideal, and in the movies, it looks incredibly hot–some of us are pretty dang awkward when it comes to dancing and trying to be “seductive.” If you’re anything like me and you’re a walking clutz who has previously set a pillow on fire by accident when trying to seduce her boyfriend–I’m here to help you out.
Don’t do anything you’re uncomfortable doing–like, if you’re not into twerking, don’t twerk. Wear something that makes you feel good about yourself, like lingerie or a teddy. Do your hair and makeup so you feel extra on point, too. Create some space between you and your partner so he’s not getting the goodies right away. Most importantly–have fun! Seduction and teasing–and anything romantic–is supposed to be a fun, loving, shared experience with you and your partner–don’t put too much pressure on yourself.
While we’re at it, we rounded up 11 of the best songs to take it on down to. You’re welcome.
11. Naughty Girl, Beyoncé:
This seems like an obvious one, but, there are some good slow/fast parts that you can incorporate some slow moves into. Plus, the lyrics are spot-on.
10. Motivation, Kelly Rowland:
Keeping in the “Destiny’s Child” family, Rowland’s song also has the perfect lyrics and rhythm to make it spicy and hot.
9. Good For You, Selena Gomez:
This is one of my personal favorites because it puts me in a pretty bad-a** mood. The lyrics, the slow rhythm, and the rap verse are perfect when you’re trying to show your partner you want them.
8. Ride, Ciara ft. Ludacris:
The way Ciara emphasizes riiiiiide–well, you know the deal.
7. Me & U, Cassie:
This music video was the first time I experienced the whole–let me look smokin’ hot while dancing seductively when I was like, 14. Plus, the music video gives you some good moves to use.
6. Sex With Me, Rihanna:
Sure, this one isn’t as slow as the others. But, the words are perfect to get you in a mood of HBIC. Take advantage of the situation and get that confidence going.
5. Slow Motion, Juvenile:
This one is definitely a throwback–but a classic, in the best way possible.
4. Buttons, Pussy Cat Dolls:
The lyrics to this one are straightforward and perfect for a little strip action.
3. Dip It Low, Christina Milian:
If you’re trying to dip it low and bring it up slow, this one’s a jam.
2. Pony, Ginuwine:
All you need to do is watch Jenna Dewan’s striptease to this song on Lip Sync Battle and you’re golden.
1. I’m A Slave For You, Britney Spears:
The ultimate striptease song by the queen of pop.