It’s been known that us girls always tend to melt to big executed romantic gestures like the ones you see on social media. But little did we know that men also become the victim of them by the smallest of things and to be honest with you it’s kind of cute. Who would have thought that those big buff macho guys would instantly melt over a love note? Well, I guess you can’t judge a book by its cover and who said guys can’t get some affection or love without being judged by how they react to it? Personally, a man who shows his true feelings is far more attractive than a man who withholds every emotion possible from you. We know you’re a human being and we know you’re not made of stone. So we thank the men that decided to come forward and share what truly melts their heart and you’d be surprised at just how simple it is to touch their souls.
1. How thoughtful.
I’m legally blind in my right eye and one girl I was dating always made a point to get seats on the right side of theaters so that I’d be able to see everything without turning my head. Really simple but it blew me away when I caught on to her.
2. Surprise kisses FTW.
I feel warm & loved when my wife comes up behind me and kisses me on the back. I can’t explain. It’s not sexual. It’s just awesome.
3. Bliss.
When she runs her hand through my hair.
4. You light up the room, obviously.
When I walk in the Room and a get a subtle smile.
5. It shows how much she really wants you there.
When she initiates any sort of romantic contact. Maybe a kiss or just gripping me tighter when cuddling and letting out a content sigh.
6. That takes effort.
So I’m traveling abroad for work right now, won’t get to see my girl for like six months. She sent me a stack of like 20 letters, each in a different colored envelope. Each one is labeled “Open when you’re happy” or “Open when you’re sad”, “Open when you can’t sleep”, etc. and every one contains like 2-3 pictures of us doing something together, and a letter to suit the situation.It really brings a smile to my face, and makes the distance easier. I love my chick!
7. Awwww.
If I’m driving and we’re just cruising on the highway and I’ve got my left hand on the wheel I just love it when she holds my right.
8. A sense of humor matters.
Notes. One time I came home to a note on the microwave saying “DEAD DOVE DO NOT EAT jk it’s pizza”. I’m like, this girl fucking GETS me.
9. *Hair raises on arms*
Whisper in my ear. Instant melt. Bonus melt for the content of said whispers.
10. Physical contact goes a long way…and not just sex.
Taking my hand, at an unexpected moment, accompanied by a simple, genuine smile that expresses more than words could possibly say.