There are as many reasons to break up with somebody as there are things that attract people to one another in the first place. When it comes time to end things and move on, there are big, acceptable, universally understood reasons, like they cheated on you, or they’re rage monsters, or you fell out of love. Then there’s the stuff that’s ostensibly small…but which indicate bigger personality flaws or which are so obnoxious and annoying you just can’t get past them. Here are some of those, recently revealed by 25 real people.