9.
He liked to go out drinking and partying with his ex, and finally admitted he was cheating on me with her. We worked things out and he went away for work, I drove 8 hours to visit, and 15 minutes into seeing him he admits to cheating with 3 other women, all on the same day! We split and he knocked some girl up a few years later. They had their baby exactly 1 year after my husband and i had our daughter- to the day.
The kicker, he named the baby boy the baby name I told him I was going to name my first born boy!
10.
I was in college and my boyfriend at the time was a student at the same school. We both lived with friends off campus. For a full semester, he didn’t have a car for whatever reason, so I was picking him up at his house, dropping him off at campus for class, then picking him up at the end of his class and bringing him home, 2-3 times per week. If I had plans, I would rearrange them around his schedule so I could be there to pick him up and drop him off.
Long after we broke up, I learned that he had dropped out of school as soon as the semester began (or before for all I know) and for nearly 6 months, he didn’t tell me. He would have me pick him up at home, drop him off at school, then one of his roommates would leave their house, pick him up at school, bring him back to their house, they would play video games and eat McDonalds for nearly 3 hours, then BRING HIM BACK TO SCHOOL, where I would meet him to pick him up and bring him back home.
This went on from the start to the end of the semester. He told me he was afraid I would judge him for dropping out, so instead, he orchestrated this charade for months that caused me to completely waste my time, energy, and gas mileage for someone who had no redeeming qualities other than the fact that he was working towards his own future and had the skills to be manipulative enough to carry on such an elaborate lie for so long.
He even carried a fake notebook and text book to “class”.
11.
Upon catching him getting a blow-job from some girl at a party, he shrugged and said, “Like I’m gonna tell her to stop?”
12.
I dated an a**hole for 16 months we had a great time together and he was my first boyfriend. We would spend after school together whenever we could and when we couldn’t hangout we would play moshi monsters.
Well, in moshi monsters you have your “message board” anyone can see and you stick “post-its” to it when you want to talk to someone.
He dumped me after forgetting my birthday in an online childrens game on a public board. It read: “hey sorry I missed your birthday the other day but anyways its not working out bye.”
13.
This was an ex of 7 years on and off. We remain friends to this day, but this happened one summer when we were in high school.
He went camping almost every weekend with his family near Atlantic City, so one weekend me and my friend Donna decided to go camping at a nearby campground and spend the weekend with him and some friends.
I introduce them. Not five minutes later my friend asks if she can kiss him. I of course said no, but that didn’t stop her.
However I didn’t find out she went behind my back until AFTER the weekend… when he called me and broke up with me… followed by him asking my permission to date Donna.
For the month that followed, he would call me almost every night and either talk to me or leave me text and voicemail thanking me for introducing him to such a great person.
14.
He chewed tobacco. Always left his spit bottles everywhere.. asked and asked for him to pick them up.. never did. Till one day I spilled one of them all over my lap.
So I grabbed all the ones I could find—7 half full cans… and put them inside his pillow case.
He got home late and tired and slept in his own spit!!