10+ Tips For Women Who Really Want To, Uh, Get In Touch With Themselves

2. Use Objects

And while you’re wandering around the house free masturbating, consider objects that might come into play. Lean against a vibrating washing machine or hump a pillow. It’s your stuff. Go nuts.

1. Stick With the Tried And True

If none of this stuff works, that’s cool. Go back to what you’re used to. This is about you, right? Experimenting is good for giving an extra edge of frisson and excitement, and once you’ve got that, the older techniques might seem that much more exciting.