3. Explore Your Body First
One of the best things I can suggest is to first explore your body by yourself, and by that I mean to masturbate. I suggest using your fingers before you try a toy just so you can discover how to get you off. Tempos, pressure and other things are great to know so when you have someone else there you can explain what to do to ensure you get off too. How can someone else please you when you can’t even please yourself?
4. Find A Sexual Partner To Experiment With
Sometimes we find ourselves in long-term relationships where things are boring or we are single and looking for fun. Regardless, by having a sexual partner who is either interested in the same things as you are or experimenting with new kinks can create a safe place and really help you discover if you like it or not. You might even have experiences with someone randomly opening you up to this new thing that will totally change your world. But definitely try these with someone you trust (or want to thrust, no shame there).
There is no reason to lay there in bed waiting for him to get a cum rag while disappointed anymore. Follow these steps and help you explore the new sexual human you wish to be. It’ll be so worth it in the long run! Trust me, good sex makes a difference in your mood in every better way possible.
This post was originally published on Unwritten.