All men are not created equal. In fact, some men arent even that theyre boys, but you still give them the time of day. You dont realize how much youve been missing out on for all these years until you finally date a grown guy who knows how to treat a woman.
1. He always offers to pay, but still lets you pay, too.
Grown men understand that grown women dont need to be taken care of, and we get satisfaction out of picking up the tab, too. A man-child will feel like he needs to show you hes the boss and can support you, but wont understand why it’s important to you that you contribute.
2. He isn’t afraid to acknowledge that you’re together in fact, he’s proud.
When you finally date a mature guy, he has no issue saying youre his girlfriend because he isnt worried what other people will think. He also wont be as hung up on time and if he is moving too fast or too slow. He is interested in what feels right.
3. He doesn’t hesitate to tell you when he doesn’t want a relationship.
This can be a bummer, but we always complain we want men to be more honest about their intentions. When you date a man, he will be. Now, dont confuse honesty with excuses, like that he doesnt have time for a relationship, because thats B.S. But if he tells you upfront that hes only looking for something casual, thank him for his honesty.
4. He’s upfront about his baggage.
Guys have had lives before you, so it should come as no surprise that they have exes and potentially children, too. If hes honest and upfront about it, hes a man; if he hides it from you until you see a stuffed My Little Pony at his place, you might consider running, quickly.
5. He has a healthy fear for your family but doesn’t avoid them.
Smart men know that a womans family is usually a huge (though sometimes annoying and stressful) part of her life. He also knows that he needs to care about his relationship with them, and shouldnt avoid them. A boy, on the other hand, will let his fear get in the way and steer clear of them, which will just make it harder for you.