8 Things Girls With Boyfriends Are Sick & Tired Of Hearing

I’m not quite sure why it is – but, society hates on the girl who has a boyfriend. For some reason, if you have a boyfriend who is not your fiancé or your husband, or, is not ready to make that kind of commitment – he’s not a priority to your life or your plans. Your friends will judge you, your family will judge you and – it’s just a cycle of non-stop complaining and nagging.

Let me say – f*ck that noise, guys.

When you’re in a relationship in which you’re in love, respect and honesty – f*ck what everyone else thinks. Tell them to take their opinions of your relationship and stick ’em where the sun don’t shine.

1. “You let him control you too much.”

There’s a fine line between controlling and having mutual respect for one another. If my boyfriend is uncomfortable with something I do, say, or wear – we’ll talk about it and come to an understanding and compromise because – it works both ways. If I’m uncomfortable with something he does/says, we can talk it out just the same. Respect is the most important thing in a relationship.

2. “You spend too much time together.”

Don’t tell me how I should spend my time. It is my time. If I want to spend it in bed with my boyfriend binge watching old episodes of That 70’s Show and ordering nachos – I will.

3. “You’ll get sick of him eventually.”

You know what – everyone’s going to get sick of your bad attitude eventually, too.

4. “I miss who you were before you two started dating.”

Everyone in life grows as human beings – with or without relationships. It’s not fair to tell someone you dislike the person they have become, especially if they are happy and not harming themselves or anyone around them. Stop being bitter.

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Written by Lex Gabrielle

A writer and teacher from New York City who fully supports messy buns and 3+ cups of coffee a day.